We are Thomas and Isy, the couple who projected "Happy Wife, Happy Life" App.
We were friends in high school times and then, after 20 years, we met again and became a well-matched couple. After the romance of the first months, of course discussions and little fights started, exacerbated by the fears that everyone was carrying from previous relationships experience: Thomas was biased by the fact that in his experience "all women are hysterical" and it was surely only a matter of time that Isy had not yet revealed itself as the others. At the same time, Isy's trust against the male gender was equal to that you can have for a politician ... where was the catch? Was he really so nice and helpful or was it all a sham to obtain her favors? One day after a discussion, Isy apologized to Thomas, knowing that her reaction was over the top, dictated by the proximity of her period as she was in the middle of premenstrual syndrome (PMS). She even asked him to please write down on his calendar the same days for the next month to remember it and be especially kind and tolerant during those days. As a mobile addict, Thomas replied: I'll need an App for it.
We were friends in high school times and then, after 20 years, we met again and became a well-matched couple. After the romance of the first months, of course discussions and little fights started, exacerbated by the fears that everyone was carrying from previous relationships experience: Thomas was biased by the fact that in his experience "all women are hysterical" and it was surely only a matter of time that Isy had not yet revealed itself as the others. At the same time, Isy's trust against the male gender was equal to that you can have for a politician ... where was the catch? Was he really so nice and helpful or was it all a sham to obtain her favors? One day after a discussion, Isy apologized to Thomas, knowing that her reaction was over the top, dictated by the proximity of her period as she was in the middle of premenstrual syndrome (PMS). She even asked him to please write down on his calendar the same days for the next month to remember it and be especially kind and tolerant during those days. As a mobile addict, Thomas replied: I'll need an App for it.
"HAPPY WIFE" project
"Good idea" ... the day after Isy had already contacted a company of their city to help her in her new project: to develop an App that would help men to understand women, suggesting them how to behave every day of the month following the cyclical changes that every woman undergoes in the different phases of the menstrual cycle (which usually lasts 28 days), all founded on scientific basis. The App would have been useful for her too, to keep under control her menstrual cycle, her fertility, the moon phases and to remind her that hunger, swelling, unmotivated sadness or sudden anger for facts that till the day before seemed unworthy of note, were normal messages of her body preparing for the maturation of an egg, or his expulsion. Hormones play a key role in this. This App does not solve problems like a magic wand, but helps to deal with them in an understanding and cooperating mood, where the ultimate goal is the serenity of both members of the couple. Thomas is now less stressed because some days he expects Isy is not cheerful as usual, or that she needs to be reassured about physical appearance or on his feelings towards her. He just has to remember to read the App. Isy now, when she catch herself eating a giant pizza drinking three beers, or feels the need to kill Thomas for an oversight that that day became war declaration ... reads the App and realizes that that day is better to calm down and talk about the issue in a more serene occasion. Because there is a problem she is not gone mad, she just isn't able to deal with the discussion with serenity. Back home, she finds beers, chips and chocolate and Thomas who asks her if she wants a massage, or go out for dinner. Isy blesses the App and Thomas for having read it proving he cares. She relaxes. Thomas can't even suspect how much should he bless the App that day ...
"We must absolutely avoid giving for granted that the partner will always know, instinctively, what we need"
John Gray.
John Gray.
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