BE SIMPLE
I am getting in my 40's and I can summarize what terribly fatigued the "romantic" relationships of my life is simple: you are too complicated, your thought are too complicated. Men are simple creatures and not reason in the same way you are. When are we happy? When we live with you in peace and serenity. When we can express our thoughts freely, without feeling judged and we realize that we are accepted as we are, indeed, you like us as we are. When we realize that we make you happy: for that I fully shared with Isy the realization of this App.
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BRAIN AND BOXES
Have you ever heard the story of the two brains by Mark Gungor? It simply explain how and why male and female brains are different: he describes the male brain as composed of many small boxes: one for the car, a box for you, a box for the job ... but none of these boxes is in contact with the other ones. When we talk about a particular subject, we pull out that box then we open and discuss just what is contained in that box. After that we close the box and we put it back, always careful not to touch the others. Female's brain is like a big ball of thread, everything is connected to everything. Money is connected to the car and the car is connected to your work and to your children, who are connected to your mother: is like surfing on Internet and navigation is driven by the energy of emotions, feelings. This is why women tend to remember everything, because if we talk about an event, this one is connected to an emotion, and lights in the memory forever. In our masculine brain that doesn't happen often, even because frankly ... we don't' care.
THE EMPTY BOX
We have a particular box in our brain, an empty one.It's full of "nothing", and it is our favorite box, if we would like to spend in our empty box every possible moment. Is like an apparently death brain (yes, I love to fish). Now you know the empty box exists, may you accept its existence as we accept that your brain is constantly working?
RESPECT MY TIME
I can be slow in developing an answer, I can be stressed and tired from work, I can forget important events. Sometimes I see things in a completely opposite way to yours but my point of view that is equally valuable, let me the time to express myself, my brain does not work as fast as yours. Feel a sudden necessity to scream towards me to teach me something? Seethe App before attacking and assess whether it is appropriate to postpone the discussion to a more peaceful time of the month. Maybe I said something innocently awful (it seems to us that many things we say are innocent, but we often think a little before speaking ...), which last month you dismissed with a smile. If today I am aggressively shredded for the same phrase, I wont perceive the message, but only being unfairly attacked: I become deaf to all reasons, even if they are legitimate. I will look at the App to understand your world, but learn from it too, could help to manage these moments of impulsiveness.
TELL ME HOW DO YOU FEEL AND WHAT YOU WANT
Projecting the App with my girlfriend, I finally understood how women's body works, what brings you to have different moods (of course different from subject to subject): it is not an evil invention to test my patience, but the result of a physiological change in your body.
The App helps us to follow this natural monthly cycle that we do not experience and therefore is really difficult to understand. I insisted on including in the App a graph that shows us clearly how the hormones vary day by day in the body of my partner and how this may affect her emotional state. This tool helps me understand it and support her when needed, I love to make her happy and know that she feels loved ...this brings her to be very quiet and understanding towards me. This App has taught me to listen and to understand that some little daily attention, not sporadic blatant gestures, make feel good a woman.
THE RIGHT MOMENT
The app is not only showing us the daily profile of our partner, it is positive and gives us tips and advice about how and when to tackle certain issues, to go out with friends, to relax and enjoy her calm mood and enhanced sexual availability. It wont do wonders, but can greatly simplify our lives. Now I just have to remember to read it every day, I have no excuses...
Thomas
I am getting in my 40's and I can summarize what terribly fatigued the "romantic" relationships of my life is simple: you are too complicated, your thought are too complicated. Men are simple creatures and not reason in the same way you are. When are we happy? When we live with you in peace and serenity. When we can express our thoughts freely, without feeling judged and we realize that we are accepted as we are, indeed, you like us as we are. When we realize that we make you happy: for that I fully shared with Isy the realization of this App.
.
BRAIN AND BOXES
Have you ever heard the story of the two brains by Mark Gungor? It simply explain how and why male and female brains are different: he describes the male brain as composed of many small boxes: one for the car, a box for you, a box for the job ... but none of these boxes is in contact with the other ones. When we talk about a particular subject, we pull out that box then we open and discuss just what is contained in that box. After that we close the box and we put it back, always careful not to touch the others. Female's brain is like a big ball of thread, everything is connected to everything. Money is connected to the car and the car is connected to your work and to your children, who are connected to your mother: is like surfing on Internet and navigation is driven by the energy of emotions, feelings. This is why women tend to remember everything, because if we talk about an event, this one is connected to an emotion, and lights in the memory forever. In our masculine brain that doesn't happen often, even because frankly ... we don't' care.
THE EMPTY BOX
We have a particular box in our brain, an empty one.It's full of "nothing", and it is our favorite box, if we would like to spend in our empty box every possible moment. Is like an apparently death brain (yes, I love to fish). Now you know the empty box exists, may you accept its existence as we accept that your brain is constantly working?
RESPECT MY TIME
I can be slow in developing an answer, I can be stressed and tired from work, I can forget important events. Sometimes I see things in a completely opposite way to yours but my point of view that is equally valuable, let me the time to express myself, my brain does not work as fast as yours. Feel a sudden necessity to scream towards me to teach me something? Seethe App before attacking and assess whether it is appropriate to postpone the discussion to a more peaceful time of the month. Maybe I said something innocently awful (it seems to us that many things we say are innocent, but we often think a little before speaking ...), which last month you dismissed with a smile. If today I am aggressively shredded for the same phrase, I wont perceive the message, but only being unfairly attacked: I become deaf to all reasons, even if they are legitimate. I will look at the App to understand your world, but learn from it too, could help to manage these moments of impulsiveness.
TELL ME HOW DO YOU FEEL AND WHAT YOU WANT
Projecting the App with my girlfriend, I finally understood how women's body works, what brings you to have different moods (of course different from subject to subject): it is not an evil invention to test my patience, but the result of a physiological change in your body.
The App helps us to follow this natural monthly cycle that we do not experience and therefore is really difficult to understand. I insisted on including in the App a graph that shows us clearly how the hormones vary day by day in the body of my partner and how this may affect her emotional state. This tool helps me understand it and support her when needed, I love to make her happy and know that she feels loved ...this brings her to be very quiet and understanding towards me. This App has taught me to listen and to understand that some little daily attention, not sporadic blatant gestures, make feel good a woman.
THE RIGHT MOMENT
The app is not only showing us the daily profile of our partner, it is positive and gives us tips and advice about how and when to tackle certain issues, to go out with friends, to relax and enjoy her calm mood and enhanced sexual availability. It wont do wonders, but can greatly simplify our lives. Now I just have to remember to read it every day, I have no excuses...
Thomas
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